Through the POWER of TIM’S BUSINESS COACHING you can…

  •  〇消除盲点 Discover what you can’t see that is costing you
  • 摆脱困境, Release your 创造力 to multiply your growth
  • 〇缩小差距 Move from your current reality to your desired future
  • 获得动力, Create an environment that attracts new staff, clients, and profits


If you keep doing what you’ve always done will anything change?

指导是一种承诺, 创造力, 问责制, integrity and balance in your business and in your personal life. Your role as the client is to be willing to challenge your current thinking and to change your approach to your business. Coaching gives you the opportunity to reinvent yourself, 学习和成长, 并创造出强大的, 新结果.

在教练之旅中, we deepen the transformation for you and your organization and multiply the results through these 7 clarifying questions:

  1. 评估:  我们在哪里?
  2. 识别:  我们要去哪里??
  3. 战略:  我们如何到达那里?
  4. 实现:  我们需要什么技能/资源?
  5. 创建:  How do we optimize the environment for growth and productivity?
  6. 评估:  什么 is working and what is not (continual improvement)?
  7. 加速:  我们如何掌控自己的内心世界?


塔尔萨韦德网站 要避免的成长错误-反应

Reacting Against Problems Instead of Creating Towards Them

As an experienced 塔尔萨韦德网站 expert, I have my share of not-so-positive experiences. This is one that I use frequently when I provide my Tulsa business coaching process to business owners.

A number of years ago, my wife wanted to buy a brand new suburban. In my logical, CPA-focused mind, I thought that was a bad idea. “桑迪, why would you want to buy a new car? As soon as you drive it off the dealer’s lot, we will lose several thousand dollars!”

我的话落在地上了. 我说什么也改变不了桑迪的愿望. 两种想法在我心中点燃. The first thought was a question, “Why not be sensitive to Sandy’s desires? 而不是判断她的欲望, why not celebrate it and do everything I can to help her get what she wants?”

多么新颖的想法 . . . and what a major movement from cluelessness to connection in our relationship!

The second thought was a challenge that I presented to my wife. “桑迪, let’s create an investment vehicle outside of our normal income that will produce more than enough profits to take care of the monthly payments.” We came into agreement and began to look for an investment.

Within weeks, we found a four-unit apartment building that needed to be renovated. A property company agreed to do all of the remodeling and leasing. 短短几个月内, all four units were rented and we were generating more than enough income to buy Sandy a new suburban. We enjoyed the surplus income for over a year.

Over time, the neighborhood start to decline. Crime and violence increased with every passing month. 什么 was initially a blessing began to turn on us. 我们开始失去租客. 使我们的挑战更加复杂, the property company dropped us as one of their clients, and I couldn’t find a responsible property company to replace them.

The expenses going out were far greater than the income. And yet the bank still wanted to get paid the mortgage every month without fail. 形势到了危急关头.

我是如何应对危机的? Initially, I simply ignored what was happening hoping that it would someday get better or go away. I had other investments that more than made up for the monthly losses so I didn’t worry too much about it. My initial response was not that of an experienced Tulsa business coaching expert.

Within months, my other investments also turned sour and began losing money. Our financial crisis reached the red zone, and I wasn’t sure what to do.

在这期间,我教了一个 的力量去创造 seminar in a poverty-stricken community and witnessed great turnarounds with the people. Joy, hope, and possibility filled their faces as we created action plans around their dreams. It was exciting to see the power of God’s gift active in their lives.

Back home, that excitement vanished as I faced my own personal drama. The real estate situation continued to worsen. In fact, a violent murder occurred about 20 feet from the door of our apartment building. 我该怎么办呢? 形势似乎没有希望了. 我只剩下一个房客了.

I sat sulking behind my desk in our ministry office feeling overwhelmed and depressed about the financial challenges of this property. 情况变得不可能了.

什么?! 我在想什么? 不可能的? The words I just taught others rang in my ears. God has given you the power to create wealth. I began to compare my current emotional state with that of the people I had just ministered to, and I realized that I was reacting to my situation instead of creating towards it. I had conformed to the negativity rather than working to transform it.

简单地说,我没有言行一致. 尽管情况很困难, 那时候我不知道该怎么办, 我知道上帝给了我一个有创造力的, powerful gift to help me transform negative circumstances. 我给自己一段时间休息.” Do I believe the truth I am preaching to others? 这些东西真的有用吗? Am I going to be dominated by this investment turned bad?

I arrested my negative imaginations and declared that enough was enough. 我把椅子往后推了推, 自信地站了起来, 并开始大胆地宣布, “God has given me the power to create wealth. This works even in the most challenging situations. I turn from reacting against to create towards it. I declare that this apartment is filled with renters, and it is sold!”

My body language aligned with the words that came out of my mouth. Depression and the feelings of overwhelm melted away. 我感觉很棒! 然后我坐下来继续工作.

Then, the very next day something very dramatic happened . . .

The one renter remaining in the apartment called to tell me she was moving out that day.

Have you ever made a big statement only to have just the opposite happen?

詹姆斯称之为信仰的考验.i It is when what you see on the inside is different than what you see on the outside. He encourages us to joyfully look at the hardship from a place of empowerment rather than defeat. When your faith is on trial, there is a tempering or purifying process that occurs. Your faith is strengthened to the point where nothing overwhelms you.

面对相反的情况, I slumped in my chair and waves of overwhelm and impossibility flooded my thoughts. I was slinking further and further into despair until I caught myself again. “等一下! Am I creating towards or reacting against this situation? Is this situation hopeless, or am I just acting hopelessly?”

就像前一天一样, I stood up behind my desk and began shouting with even more fervor, “I declare that this place is rented and sold at a great price. There are creative strategies and actions ready and waiting for me to implement. Through God’s help and with the gift He gave me, I am going to use my power to create a different result than what I am seeing now!” The key to effective Tulsa business coaching is to move clients from reacting to creating. 我必须学会自己做这件事!

Instead of sitting down as I did the day before, I immediately began to act. I didn’t know exactly how to solve the problem and turn the situation around but I began to move. 财富源于运动.

That morning, I drove down to the housing authority to learn how they operate. 我重新列出了这些财产. I called a construction crew to remodel areas that needed attention. I listed the apartment for sale on a number of internet sites.

我还实施了另一个重要的策略. I began to listen to God’s “sexy voice” in my life (that is, I began to listen to my wife!). 她有一些非凡的想法. 我们立即实施了它们.

I wish I could say it was easy from then on. That is not how life presented itself to us during that time; rather, it was quite the contrary. It demanded hard work and wading through difficulties that we didn’t always know what to do in the moment. We got the best advice we could, considered the options, and then acted. 这是一个磕磕绊绊的过程.

With the property company nowhere in sight, I handled calls from potential renters. I would tell them of the newly remodeled, spacious, 2-bedroom units we had available. Their interest piqued until they asked me for the address of the apartment. Frequently, the prospects asked me, “Is that the place where someone was murdered a few weeks ago?“我要说什么呢?? They usually hung up on me as I explained the situation to them.

We were tempted to give up many times along the way. 这一点也不容易. 成功不是为懦夫准备的. Don’t just hear me as an expert in Tulsa business coaching. 这适用于地球上的每一个人. That is why Paul prayed that you would be strengthened with all might in your inward man, that you would be strengthened and built up on the inside.ii You are designed to be unflappable and unmovable when situations want you to conform to them.

You have been created to bring His abundance into difficult places. 你不害怕混乱. 你不害怕困难的情况. You show up ready to create towards instead of reacting against the persistent problems.

我们没有放弃,没有付出,也没有闭嘴. 在勤奋地徘徊在混乱之后, 随时随地创造价值, 在两个月内, we had the apartment fully rented and sold at the full retail price!

Sometimes it just takes us picking ourselves up, 咬紧牙关, 并说, “我会尽我所能做到最好. 上帝帮助我. 圣灵,开始与我一起工作.” Then, you take a little step towards creating rather than reacting.

You may be facing a situation right now that is demanding that you stand up and speak to that situation. 宣布谁是老板. Are you going to conform to this situation, or are you going to transform it?

A major key to success is not trying to get rid of or avoid problems, but learning to be creative in the problems. Grow yourself beyond the challenge that you are facing. 你有这样的能力.

Here are 3 questions to think about and respond to that will help you move from reacting to creating:

  1. 什么 is one area in your life or business that you have been reacting against instead of creating towards?
  2. 什么 is one small way that you can begin creating towards that challenge?
  3. How do you think you and your business will benefit because you embraced the courage to create towards it?

该内容由蒂姆·雷德蒙编写, the choice of Tulsa business consulting of choice for Tulsa business coaching.

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